See I have this problem which is kind of hard to explain. Anyway here I go on how it all started. I think it was after that wrestling match on WWE. I seem to have caught the "thug" disease and I even attend thugzonamics classes once in a while to advance my thug ranking. The thing is that I do not know what my problem is? I still don't see it myself. Is wearing big chains and extra large clothes wrong? And why are you pointing fingers at me for that. Yes people like you do that to me. Can you please explain it to me nicely what my problem is and give me some advice to help myself.
- SanoBhai, Nepal
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There’s nothing to worry about. This is your age to live up fantasies. As you are obsessed with this”thug” thing so are some people crazy about stars they like. Until you are enjoying wearing big chains and extra large clothes, there’s no problem at all. This is just a phase, which will end sooner or later. Till its going on enjoy it!!!  People keep talking anyways, don’t bother.
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You can divide your time equally and follow it strictly. Remember that your studies are equally important.

I’m a 18 yr old girl studying intermediate level. I was crazy for a boy of my campus who is senior to me. I proposed him and he said yes. I was having a good time but I was silly that I had a physical relationship and now that my periods are getting irregular I fear that I am pregnant. I want to go to a doctor but he doesn't seem to care. I don't know if I should tell it to my parents... please advise me what to do...
- Garima, Nepal.
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The real problem is whether you are pregnant or not. Discuss this with the boy you are in love with in a proper manner. Then go to see the doctor together. If the answer is positive, it’s very early to be a mother. Think twice and if the result is negative, be careful ahead. You said that the boy doesn’t seem to care and if he does it this time go to your close friend and get help from her. You can share your things with her. In your case a doctor’s advice might be beneficial. If this boy doesn’t help you in this case, he’s just “making the hay when the sun is shining,” so forget about him. It would be better not to bother your parents.

First of all be sure whether both of you are sure to get in a relationship or not. Take and give a chance, start out fresh. Create magic of togetherness. Go out and share things. Hope this can help you.

For a marriage love is a must and trust and faith comes next. If physical relationship is just the basis of your love life then take a break…you can’t go on this way. First decide why you want to be with him? Is it of love or lust? Parents are equally important, try to convince them sincerely. In case they don’t permit and if your determination and maturity favors you can go for court marriage. Right person in your life will make you happy and your happiness in long run will convince your parents that both of you are made for each other.

To express your feelings paper or mail media can be helpful. Using drugs to boost up your self-confidence is not a sane idea. Doing this, you are playing with your life. Love is just a part of life and life is precious. Don’t waste it. 

Well you fell in love too early. It seems that you are confused. Make sure whether you love or like this guy, since love and like are two different things. From your query it seems you simply had a crush which is natural. Since you are a teenager it is obvious to get attracted towards opposite sex. You have to know him completely before getting into the relationship.

You haven’t seen or met this girl. For this reason its very difficult to say what she feels for you. Wait for a while and have patience. Give her time to express her feelings. You can do that through chatting or through the mails. This will let you know what going on.

Flirting is in your blood… hmm!!! Don’t  worry you can make this a serious matter if your intentions are so. Tell her that you have special feelings for her in a sincere way.

There is no age bar when you fall in love. Your actual problem is not of age but feelings. If that guy has girlfriend its worthless seeking and affair but if you want to be his girlfriend he may change you for other, as you accepted earlier. This is something you want like. You are running away from the situations. Not meeting or talking to this guy won’t solve your problem. Speak out to him about what’s going on within you. This way both of you can be helped.

Since you people go out alone the girl seems to like you. You should tell what you feel for her. Take her to some restaurant and pour your feelings. Ask her how she feels for you.